Living Together ~ Meet the community

Living Together ~ Meet the community

A monastic rhythm of Taizé prayer, joyful labor, & the way of reconciliation. Grounded in the love of Christ—open to all.

Meet the Team

  • Br. Stefan Waligur • Founder


    What brings me to the table:
    How can we love the world today? This is the question we ask everyday here in community of peace. My life here is rich and I am grateful to be here. Living in community singing and praying every day trusting God learning to love others this is what life could be and should be. We welcome you to come visit and participate in our common life.


  • Tim Bickel • Resident Monk



    What brings me to the table: Community of Peace is a very unique spiritual place for me, different than all other places my path has taken me through. Br. Stefan encourages us to live by the love teachings of Jesus, all around, and through and through, and to apply them in relating to all other people, all the time. Yet he is accepting of all people and places and makes no demands on anyone else’s personal spiritual path other than that they honor and respect the Christian monastic nature of this community, its daily rhythm of sung prayer, community suppertime and maintaining a friendly atmosphere of quietude and non-violent communication.

    I came here initially for a healing retreat, loved what this place is and became a permanent resident. I’m now preparing to make my lifetime vows as a monk here.


    A bit about me:
    I came here from Erie County, PA. I was an electronic engineer and industrial programmer for all of my career. So, I’m very logical minded.

    I began a conscious seeking, following a spiritual path, when I was 30. And that has led me deep into both the mindfulness practices of Buddhism and the teachings of Jesus in the gospels. I led mindfulness/spiritual groups for 25 years prior to coming here. And, I had a small retreat and meditation center for 13 years, which gave me a desire for community living.


    You should know: My passion is to share mindfulness practices and teachings with people, orienting them to the teachings of Jesus. I also enjoy my hobby-level use of my camera, particularly with nature pictures. And I also enjoy ranting on FB for social justice, awareness, and sharing my ever-deepening experience of how wonderful the love of Christ is in and through us to help bring peace to this world.

  • Barb Miller • Resident Monk • Newsletter editor • Artist • Tree Talker



    What brings me to the table: I had a plan, then Holy Spirit laughed!


    A bit about me:
    When I'm not busy falling, recuperating or dropping things, I'm on my iPad Pro working on the next newsletter, formatting pictures, writing Welcome Cards or drawing the next Mandala. I talk too much but I also listen well & I have good shoulders if you need something to cry on.

    You should know:
    My door is usually open.

  • Allan Gajadhar • Board of Directors


    What brings me to the table: I have been involved with the Community of Peace since its founding- as a regular visitor, spreading awareness in my local spiritual communities, and participating in the 'All shall be well' virtual choir. The community exemplifies and evangelizes the spiritual life that I feel called to support.


    A bit about me:
    I am a long-time resident of Arlington Virginia, where I helped raise my 3 children. 

    I am a native of Guyana, and I have been a citizen of three different countries including dual citizenship with the US and Canada.  A premed and history major in college, I also worked nights during his studies as a Teamster. Initially pursuing a PhD in history at Georgetown University, I also studied literary and critical theory. I joined the software industry after 9 years at the University and have been a software industry program manager for over 20 years. 

    Very active in the community, I have been President of the Arlington County Civic Federation, and of the Center for Spiritual Living Metro.  I live a spiritually focused life, including practicing meditation and facilitating meditation groups.

    You should know:
    I feel a calling to be of service, to practice conscious contact with God.  I show up as a spiritual servant leader, as a true Christian.  I advocate for the powerless, the voiceless, and those in need of care, of help, of support; in my community, and anywhere I can.  Being part of the Community of Peace helps me to remember I AM in silence, in song, and in service. 

  • Ray Amoruso • Board of Directors


    What brings me to the table: For first time visitors to the Community of Peace, what strikes you almost immediately is the serenity, quietness and love that seems to embrace every nook and cranny of the Sophia house, the wrap around deck that overlooks the pond immediately behind the house, and the beautiful 270 acres of land that comprises the campus of Community of Peace. At its core, Community of Peace is a monastic Christian community with Br. Stefan serving as the Abbot and leader of this community. 

    Community of Peace is focused upon transforming lives through a rhythm of daily prayer, song, work and contemplative silence and mindfulness.  More than ever, in today’s busy and noisy world, where we are constantly bombarded with social media, political distractions, never ending wars, hateful rhetoric and overall distractions to acquire more things to fill some void in our lives, Community of Peace is a place where people, especially young people, can find a place to sit in silence and prayer.

    There can be no better mission than that in my opinion, which is why I have chosen to serve on the Community of Peace Board of Directors.  Brother Stefan is inspiring and a gentle spirit and anything that I can contribute to fulfilling the mission and vision of Community of Peace, is more important than ever. 


    A bit about me:
    I have recently retired after working for 44 years in the field of public transportation in which I helped people with alternative mobility options (like public transit).  We often take for granted in our "car-centric" culture that everyone has the ability and financial means to own and drive an automobile, but sadly this is not always the case in our country.   I have served on other not-for-profit boards and hope that those past experiences can help Community of Peace in their mission. 


  • Bridget Weinberg • Board of Directors


    What brings me to the table:
    A bit about me:
    You should know:

  • Sita • Resident • Chief Enthusiasm Officer

    What brings me to the table: Snacks. Mostly snacks. If you have snacks, I am already your best friend.

    A bit about me: I’ve successfully trained my human to tend to my every need. I make sure he gets plenty of exercise on our walks, and I spend my "off-hours" trying to convince the cats to play with me. (It’s a work in progress.)

    You should know: Life is good, mon’! I’m pretty sure I run this place.

  • Gumbi • Resident • Sanctuary Sentinel


    What brings me to the table: I was brought here in a cage. I attempted a strategic exit on night one… unfortunately, I was intercepted. I’ve decided to stay for the benefits package (the food is acceptable).

    A bit about me: I specialize in patrolling the grounds when the humans aren't looking. I am a connoisseur of silence and undisturbed sunbeams.

    You should know: I am currently filing a formal grievance regarding the new puppy. My "No Puppies" policy remains strictly in effect, regardless of current house guests.

  • JB • Resident • Professional Observer

    What brings me to the table: The rent is free and I like the vibe.

    A bit about me: I have a "tough guy" reputation to maintain, but I’m actually a softie. If I bolt when you walk in, don't be offended. I’m just finding a better spot to stare at you from a distance.

    You should know: I’m shy. If we make eye contact, act natural.

Levels of Participation

The path into the Community of Peace is a gradual unfolding—a movement from hearing the song to becoming part of the choir.

1. The Visiting Server

For those staying a week or more, we invite you to join our Sacred Exchange. By offering four hours of daily service, you receive the gift of the sanctuary in return. This is an invitation to experience the monastery’s melody—contributing to the life of the land while finding your own rhythm within it—without a long-term commitment.

Learn more about the Sacred Exchange 

2. The Discernment Residency

For those who feel a deep resonance with our rhythm, we offer a three-month season of 'Mutual Discernment.' It is a time for us to listen together—to see if our daily labors and silences harmonize into a shared life.

Begin a conversation about Discernment

3. Committed Residency

Following the discernment period, and by mutual agreement with Br. Stefan and the community residents, one may be invited to stay as a permanent Resident. This is a commitment to the "Long Song"—tending the land and the silence for the sake of all who visit.

4. The Monastic Path

The title of Monk is a sacred vocation, recognized only after an extended season of residency and spiritual maturity. It is the final step in the journey, where one’s life becomes a living prayer dedicated to the sanctuary and the service of others.

The Spirit of Our Covenant

A Wide Welcome. We do not require any specific religious alignment. We only ask that our visitors bring a desire for joyful living and a sincere search for "Something Greater." Whether you come for the silence, the service, or the spirit, you have a place at our table.

The Rhythm of Decision. We believe in the power of the collective voice. Every resident and intern is invited to share ideas and insights at our weekly House Meetings.

  • Consensus: Our first path is always toward shared agreement.

  • Guidance: If a clear consensus cannot be reached, the Council or Br. Stefan provides the final direction. This ensures that the health of the community and the sanctity of our mission remain the priority.